David

    The Barber's Haircut

    Friday, August 17, 2007, 11:02 PM GMT [Hypnotherapy Hat]

    Is it just me or do we sometimes fall into the trap of most professions? For example if you know a mechanic the chances are his car is the only one in the street that looks as though it is held together with rust and good prayer! And the decorator down the road - the paint on his house is peeling faster than the skin on a lobster coloured sunbather!

    I sometimes sit back (making sure that I don't spill any of the red nectar from my bucket sized crystal glass) and look at myself and think - damn I could do with a good therapist. Then the other side of me kicks in and says "Whoa there boy, you do this all the time - just zap yourself and all is well." So why does it never seem that easy when you try?

    If I analyse the theory I suffer the grave risk of spiralling in ever decreasing circles until I disappear into oblivion. I know that I am a good hypnotist because I believe I am and my clients reap rewards. I also know that there is more than a passing resemblance of hypnosis being confused as a placebo effect.

    Even attending supervisory meetings, peer groups, and all manner of other CPD, I feel that the majority of them feel to me like a good old mutual back patting session. And guess what - this only happens when I ignore my instincts and work beyond the limits my body and mind are telling me about. I guess a good session with a hypnotist could be the answer.

    After all - have you ever seen a barber cut their own hair, and make a decent job of it?

    Now where did I put those scissors? 

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    The 'No Show' Client

    Sunday, August 5, 2007, 06:14 PM GMT [Hypnotherapy Hat]

    I very rarely get clients who fail to keep appointments, let alone those who pay in advance! But it has happened.

    Last week I was asked for an emergency appointment, having explained that new clients have to go through an intake interview and then we decide the best way forward and if necessary make an appointment.

    The client arrived early for the interview and was very hyper in terms of nervous energy. We had the usual discussion and then started looking at the case background. Things were going really well. The client was amazed when I did a heavy/light arm test followed by a handlock - all while he was 'awake' as he put it. He was so impressed that he even paid in advance for his first therapy session which was due two days later, the Sunday.

    He never arrived. I was unable to contact either of his phone numbers that evening or the next day. I thought that maybe he had heard Monday instead of Sunday so I prepared again the next day - still no client. Several attempts at contact have failed. I will see if he shows up tonight.

    If not then I will write to him to see what has happened. I'll let you know what happens... 

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